Thursday, October 22, 2009
my friend once told me something...didn't think it was true when i first heard it..but after going through the process yeh it's true....he said "life changes love changes...n sometimes your closest friends become strangers" true said true said....
lets say YOU have a friend (whether you were a guy or a girl)
a really REALLY close one....
you have loads of fun together go out do things etc...
you believe in that friend n that friend believes in you...
you'd do anything to that person...n that person'd do anything for you..or at least thats what is obvious
sometimes little problems are just the trigger to a huge fight...n then fall out...
What if that close friend of urs did something bad to you (but thats only what you think)
and that friend didn't actually do it..but you still Act in a way that is #$#$(#$ way...
how about you try to put your self in their shoes???
and a really good friend came to you and said " no i didn't do it!!!
and you say you believed them...
YET hold a grudge against them....
YET you talk behind their backs
YET YET YET.....too many to be mentioned here...
do you expect them to do???
put ur self back into your own shoes....
what would you do???
after the Apologize you've presented...
after the talks u've done to prove that it wasn't you...
what would you do...
Now take a look from another angle....
assume your not one of these 2 good friends n are just watching it from distance...
what would you say???
what would you think??
i personally think it pushes you into not believing that true friendships do exist...
i personally think that if thats true then friendship is just a word we've created in order to make life easier
and in order to make it a better place to live...
although there are a few that are enjoying the bless of friendship
the majority aren't
in my opinion..
never knock on a door that was slammed on your face...
never Present apologies when you know it wasn't you...
Never feel sorry for ending up that phase...
Never Ask your self oh god what did i Do...
Never Ask Why a friend has gone..
Never Feel like you've lost someone if you didn't do it...
one day you'll find a friend who perfectly fit...
who's gone is gone..
who's walked away has disappeared
isn't that what you feared??
if you called their name & got no response...
don't feel sad...it's not because You are bad...
it's because of what you've never had...
a True friend...because true friends never walk away..
friendship isn't a play..
a "friend" isn't just a word to say...
it's way more than that...
If you followed your friend...and your friend continued walking...
don't you beat your self down and feel like chocking
you done your part...now u've fallen apart..
Love Does change so does life...but friends once they're made...they should be there for eternity...
Too bad we've awaken from our dream..where colors are alive...
where love isn't myth
where friendships do exist...
where a tear never drops..
where a broken heart isn't drawn...
where you and your friend haven't fallen apart..
I would want to live longer...